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Monday, November 11, 2013

Marriage happiness is all about who calms down first during arguments | TIME.com

Marriage happiness is all about who calms down first during arguments | TIME.com
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Creative Living Awareness Welfare (CLAW):

// It’s not easy to calm down and think straight during a heated exchange, but wives who do may have happier marriages.



Every couple argues, and some conflict may not be bad for building a relationship. But when spats become heated, that’s when blame, criticism and name-calling spew forth, sometimes unintentionally. And too much of that isn’t as good for marital happiness, as plenty of research shows.



There are no secrets to stopping the tirade — each couple has their own way of resolving differences. But, say researchers from the University of California Berkeley and Northwestern University, the happiness of a marriage may depend in part on who makes the first conciliatory move to lower the emotional temperature........//

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COMMENT - CONCERN - OPINION - SAY - REFLECTION:

For saving a marriage to last forever is compromising and understanding each of the spouses mutually avoiding to much of arguments, quarrel or fight, as per my observational experience.

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